Seriously almost ready to give up on us. I don't feel like his girlfriend,i feel like his slave. Seriously I make his lunches, dinner, breakfast on the weekends. Do his laundry, clean up after him, take care of our daughter 95% of the time. I ask for three hours a week for myself so I can work out (one hour a day over three days) and I can't even get him to watch our daughter then. I have to get a babysitter. And to top it all off he's hungover today (like he is every weekend) I have an awful plugged duct, a sick baby who just wants cuddles, stuff body, and yet I'm cooking him food and getting him ice water cause he doesn't want to 'put on pants' So frustrated.
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They think it's easy when in reality our job is 24/7 and we are always the ones that have to make all the sacrifices while they get to do what they want she's not only your child he should give you a break
@pnutbutta, yes I have. I also told him I need breaks to. Just cause I'm the mother doesn't mean I don't deserve a break. I've also pointed out that I need the three hours to work out to keep me sane
I think it's Time to put a stop to this. you already have 1 newborn. he thinks his behavior is normal because it has been going on too long. take the well deserved time for yourself. maybe just get up and leave for the hour to go to they gym and come back afterwards. have you spoken to him about your feelings?
I understand your frustration but if there is no consequence to him not helping he's not going to help. stop catering to his every whim and demand he help, before you give up it could work. men are like dogs if you pet them when they are good but also pet them when they shit on the floor and chew up your shoes they won't recognize the difference anymore lol
@mizharleyquinn199, I agree with @breezy1993 .. Well put!! 🤗😉..