So time to vent because we all know that nobody is perfect and no marriage is perfect.... I am a…
So time to vent because we all know that nobody is perfect and no marriage is perfect.... I am a SAHM. I clean, I do laundry, I cook, I do it all around the house. Sometimes there are days that's I want to just relax or the baby is so clingy that I can't do anything... today I wanted to go to the Christmas parade. That turned into an argument (we can never go anywhere without it being a fight). Because he is tired from working and doesn't want to do anything on the weekends. He then proceeds to tell me he's tired of this and can't do it anymore and he doesn't even want to be around me. He then asks me what I do all day because there are always bottles in the sink and his laundry is never done... I feel so worthless when he says things like that. So I am cleaning the whole house spotless, even if it takes all night. Then maybe he won't complain. 2 more years until I'm done with school, then I will have a good job and nobody can look down on me!! 😭😩 sorry for the longgg post 😕
Nabila Quiroga·
В ожидании первенца
i'm sorry maaama, you dont need to prove anything though. take care of yourself and your little one! and yaay on finishig school!
Jasmine Atencio·
If he wants to pull the what do you do all day shit, stop doing housework stop cooking stop cleaning for one day and let him see what you actually do all day, I did that to my SO and made him take care of our son while I went out and did whatever I wanted, he doesn't say anything anymore because he knows how hard it is, if I have a bad day and tell him about it he comes home helps me with whatever I didn't get done and helps with our son. A household goes both ways yes he works, but at least he gets coworkers to talk to and an 8-10 hour break every day from the screaming crying and messes.
Tiffany·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
@mommytoprinceaiden092915, I did that and he was perfectly fine and started helping! But now that we got into an argument, he said now he's gonna be truthful and he's tired of always coming home to this. I thought I did quite a bit. It just gets hard that he doesn't understand at all
Jasmine Atencio·
It's amazing how shitty men can be sometimes, if you have a friend or family close id take your baby go to the parade with them and stay at their house, don't say anything other than that to him, let him think on the way he acted, he'll apologize. You don't need to cater to him if he isn't grateful for what you do everyday.
Tiffany·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
@mommytoprinceaiden092915, my family is 4 hours away 😕 and he already said I couldn't take him anywhere because he wants to be an ass
Jasmine Atencio·
I'd do it anyways leave a note when he gets in the shower or something, your an adult and a mother you deserve to do what you want
lol·
Your in Va , I am too VA Beach just cal me next time we can hang together ... I'm on the fence with this one men get just as angry and bitter as we do. Sometimes we have to just give them a dose of what if , ya know what I mean ? Like what if I wasn't here to do the things you ignore ... at the end of the day as long as you have love respect and trust continue to push the negative thoughts and comments aside and keep doing what you have been doing with as much pride as possible. 😘😍 blessings to you both #TeamMarriage #TeamLetsMakeItwork
lol·
In better words. Men have bitch fits too 😂😂 trust me I laugh at mine in the face it kisses him off more but then he sit back and realize ok yeah she right even if it take him to the next day lol. He still gone pay these bills tho😜 and drop them drawers when I snap my fingers !! Lol have that attitude. It's so much more fun. Know your worth , he will catch on quickly
lol·
*pisses
bbbbb888·
@mrs.watson901, that's right . great words of wisdom 😊😊😊❤
Jillian·
В ожидании первенца
sounds like my ex...they never really realize how much you do in a day or how hard raising and growing a kid is. I got myself out of that toxic relationship. My current SO is so sweet so caring he helps clean and he cooks for me when i feel sick and being pregnant doesnt allow it he also goes and works for us and never complains that I cant finish everything(house chores are never ending.) There are good guys out there!
lol·
😘 @carlitojrmami
Sen·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет)
If you need to chat, I'm in the same boat Hun. Just send a message