Advice Ladies!!!! I'm on a sale site on facebook and there's a woman in my same area that wanted to…
Advice Ladies!!!!
I'm on a sale site on facebook and there's a woman in my same area that wanted to go shopping for her kids for christmas. she doesn't have a vehicle but I have a car and she's about 10 minutes away so not a huge deal. we just went shopping at Toys R Us Sunday and spent over 2 hours in there!! I told her I'm not going shopping this weekend. however she messaged me yesterday and asked when the next time we are going shopping because she's getting anxious because christmas is coming up. she then told me her husband wants to come along too. I'm sorry but I just don't feel comfortable with that situation and I told my fiance the same thing. what would you do/say? at this point I feel like I'm possibly just being used. 😟😧
Kristin Woodall·
sounds like your being used
China·
Isn't that what she wanted though? By the way I wouldn't take the husband. I don't trust it. Take your hubby and keep baby at home.
Delia·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)
Their just getting a free ride places. Charge her gas if thats the case.
Geovonna·
Yeah no , if you do decide to take her tell her " sorry I don't feel comfortable taking your husband with us & then make sure your husband comes , just in case "
Kelsey·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
if you offered to give her a ride she probably assumed you would do it again. I would tell her that you don't feel comfortable taking her husband and hope she understands if not she can find someone else
Deleted·
I had already told her last weekend that I wasn't going this weekend. but she messaged anyway asking when we were going, like she was in such a hurry. I understand the whole 'no vehicle' thing on her end. but I had only met her the first time last weekend and didn't charge gas money. came to her house, picked her up, and at the end brought her back home. she even accidentally left her phone in my car on my car charger and I brought it back to her. her telling me her husband wants to go is just upsetting. I met him when I dropped her off and he didn't seem very nice, sorry not sorry. he seems a little controlling, because she claimed he didn't want her going out to begin with. I have my fiance stay home when I go with our daughter so I don't get her out too much in this cold weather. if I go with her shopping for an hour or two, I'd prefer it's just her and i.. but not sure how to bring it up to her without coming off rude. @knw0224 @junesmommy_15 @andrewsmommy @mommagi @kmharr3
IS·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yea... no! i wouldn't do it again. she is using you. it is not safe for you either. tell her that you aren't comfortable being a chauffeur to her and her husband.
Geovonna·
Just tell her , your busy this weekend and never reply to her ever again 😂😂😂
Geovonna·
Never even open another message she sends and she'll get the picture
Deleted·
honestly I thought about that 😂😂 @mommagi then she mentions going dumpster diving.. yeah.... NO
Geovonna·
Lol yeah hell no , just do it . Tell her I can't this weekend I already have plans and then never open another message ever again 😊😊 I do it all the time . Just leave it sitting there on unread forever
Deleted·
good thing that I never gave her my phone number when she gave me hers... this was after I told her my car broke down in the middle of an exit ramp on Wednesday. said I should have let her know... what was she gonna do for me without having a car, seriously? 😌 @mommagi
Geovonna·
Lol she was gonna get you an Uber 😂😂😂 ' go to your fb settings n block her from seeing your posts without blocking her as a friend so she'll think you never got on fb ever again and never seen her messages and she'll leave you alone
Delia·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)
Just tell her. Say Hey I thought I mentioned last week I wasn't going out today. Im spending family time. And leave it as that. She cant get mad at you for wanting to be with your family.
China·
Lmbo!!!! Right? @mommagi Lol I would so the same.
Geovonna·
Lol yeah @junesmommy_15 it's not the same as saying something rude , you just never reply again n everyone's happy
Ella·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Personally, I would ignore her and not respond. If she has money to shop she can call a cab
Angela·
Мама троих детей
I'd tell her I'm not an uber. She can order stuff online, she doesn't need a car for that .