Might be a silly question, but how will I know if I can breastfeed?
Oh ok, so I guess it just really depends then. I am really hoping I can breastfeed @randaroo @snozzberries
i have trouble with it. my nipples stay flat 90% of the time, so babies wont latch. i have used the nipple shields, but sometimes they will latch to that, sometimes they wont. so anywhere i go, the pump goes. when he was 7 days old was when i pumped 3 ounces. before that it was the colostrum so not much at all.
I didn't know I could till after she was born. You'll produce colostrum and milk will come in a few days later.

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
yeah, this will be my 4th time trying, and i pray i can breastfeed him