I don't know if anyone will actually be awake right now, but here's my situation... My OH is disabled and I am his full time carer, he has 3 or 4 slipped/herniated discs that are pushing into his spinal cord, he also has leaking spinal fluid and about 60-70% loss of feeling in both legs. He can still walk around for now but he's always in a lot of pain and he's always on morphine.... Here's my problem, when I fell pregnant, he had the slipped discs but the problem was no when near as bad, he has deteriorated dramatically since I first fell pregnant and now he really struggles to do anything with Daisy but I feel like he has given up trying... Some days it's a struggle to get him to even hold her! He can only handle her if she's asleep or really calm which isn't even related to his disability... Yesterday I was saying how tired I am and I said "all I want is to go lay down for half an hour" and he didn't even respond :( I'm looking after Daisy all by myself... Sometimes he will entertain her but the second she starts crying I have to take over... He hasn't fed or changed her since she was tiny! I just wish things were different and we could be a much more equal parenting team :( I'm sorry for the long post... I just never really get to express how I feel about all this :/
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If u need help or jus an hour a week there is Bernardo's charity they will come out a couple hours a week to sit and play with her so u can get stuff done or jus rest worth looking into everyone needs a break x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daugh...
#mombassadorchat
Moms,
Today's chat is with @mama.of.my.prince on kids with learning disabilities. Here's her bio:
Hi everyone! My name is Viclyanne, I have a year & five month old son. He's my world! I'll be talking about the everyday life of kids with learning disabilities. The barriers of having kids with disabilities, and the aspects of the everyday life.
Tips for dealing with your child/children with learning disabilities
• be a advocate to your child
• be a good listener
•...
@kelly500, if I do that then I feel like I've failed :/ she's mine to look after...