I don't know if anyone will actually be awake right now, but here's my situation... My OH is disabled and I am his full time carer, he has 3 or 4 slipped/herniated discs that are pushing into his spinal cord, he also has leaking spinal fluid and about 60-70% loss of feeling in both legs. He can still walk around for now but he's always in a lot of pain and he's always on morphine.... Here's my problem, when I fell pregnant, he had the slipped discs but the problem was no when near as bad, he has deteriorated dramatically since I first fell pregnant and now he really struggles to do anything with Daisy but I feel like he has given up trying... Some days it's a struggle to get him to even hold her! He can only handle her if she's asleep or really calm which isn't even related to his disability... Yesterday I was saying how tired I am and I said "all I want is to go lay down for half an hour" and he didn't even respond :( I'm looking after Daisy all by myself... Sometimes he will entertain her but the second she starts crying I have to take over... He hasn't fed or changed her since she was tiny! I just wish things were different and we could be a much more equal parenting team :( I'm sorry for the long post... I just never really get to express how I feel about all this :/
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If u need help or jus an hour a week there is Bernardo's charity they will come out a couple hours a week to sit and play with her so u can get stuff done or jus rest worth looking into everyone needs a break x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My husband and I aren’t exactly strangers when it comes to relationship challenges 💞. We have been together for 14 years and married for eight, so we’ve definitely gone through some growing pains as we navigated a long-distance relationship in college and our first year living together as a married 👫 couple.
But nothing has challenged our relationship quite like our first year as 👪 parents .
Before you have your first child, you have these grand ideas of what it will be like. There’s more slee...
Preggies,
Today, we are deeply saddened by the news that @Martinajjones' baby, Jason Andrew Colley, was born early and passed away. He was born today, on his father's birthday, at 34 weeks, weighing 4 pounds 7 ounces and 17 inches long. @Martinajjones has been a strong member of this community since January. We are so sad for her loss, and her family's, and our thoughts go out to her.
You can message the family on this post, if you would like to add your condolences.
Best wishes,
Preggie_USA
@kelly500, if I do that then I feel like I've failed :/ she's mine to look after...