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Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻
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I don't know if anyone will actually be awake right now, but here's my situation... My OH is disabled and I am his full…

I don't know if anyone will actually be awake right now, but here's my situation... My OH is disabled and I am his full time carer, he has 3 or 4 slipped/herniated discs that are pushing into his spinal cord, he also has leaking spinal fluid and about 60-70% loss of feeling in both legs. He can still walk around for now but he's always in a lot of pain and he's always on morphine.... Here's my problem, when I fell pregnant, he had the slipped discs but the problem was no when near as bad, he has deteriorated dramatically since I first fell pregnant and now he really struggles to do anything with Daisy but I feel like he has given up trying... Some days it's a struggle to get him to even hold her! He can only handle her if she's asleep or really calm which isn't even related to his disability... Yesterday I was saying how tired I am and I said "all I want is to go lay down for half an hour" and he didn't even respond :( I'm looking after Daisy all by myself... Sometimes he will entertain her but the second she starts crying I have to take over... He hasn't fed or changed her since she was tiny! I just wish things were different and we could be a much more equal parenting team :( I'm sorry for the long post... I just never really get to express how I feel about all this :/

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daisysmummy

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@kelly500, if I do that then I feel like I've failed :/ she's mine to look after...

kelly500

Kelly

If u need help or jus an hour a week there is Bernardo's charity they will come out a couple hours a week to sit and play with her so u can get stuff done or jus rest worth looking into everyone needs a break x

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

AF due 29th, anyone else?

AF due 29th, anyone else? Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x

Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my…

Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞

#mombassadorchat Moms, Today's chat is with @mama.of.my.prince on kids with learning disabilities. Here's her bio: Hi…

#mombassadorchat Moms, Today's chat is with @mama.of.my.prince on kids with learning disabilities. Here's her bio: Hi everyone! My name is Viclyanne, I have a year & five month old son. He's my world! I'll be talking about the everyday life of kids with learning disabilities. The barriers of having kids with disabilities, and the aspects of the everyday life. Tips for dealing with your child/children with learning disabilities • be a advocate to your child • be a good listener • understand what is a disability • ask for help • make them feel they're not alone • keep your sense of humor • don't compare • always support them no matter what • most importantly, NEVER give up Feel free to ask me questions, or contact me. I'd be willing to help and remember you're not alone! Ask @mama.of.my.prince a question by tagging her in the comments below. A huge thanks to @mama.of.my.prince for hosting this chat ❤ Let's get chatting! ✨mom.life_usa🎉