Ever feel like ur raising ur baby alone even though your SO is around.....😔😞😒

Yes!! 💔 first time mom and i feel as if i am alone

Yup 🤔🙄

All. The. Time.

Every single day

I don't have my baby yet, but I feel single as hell even though my SO is around...

I have 4 kids, 8y 3y 2y 1y, my husband works full time plus to make sure I can stay home with our kids.. I dnt ask a lot of him but I will tell you there was about a 6 month (give or take) stretch where he wasn't doing anything to help me, the kids, the house.. I was losing a battle, my anxiety was sky high, my stress unbelievable, I was always crying, I had suicidal thoughts and my kids were very very emotional and getting worse! ... I tried and tried to find ways to get my husband to take over for a litl bit so I cld breath.. nothing was rly working UNTIL about a month ago.. we started a 'points system' .. as weird as it may sound its like a secret sexy thing we have going lol

he earns points for doing certain things that I always need help with or a break from, and he has a cpl different goals to reach! (since "the bedroom" is my husbands favorite hobby) that's what he collects points for! gotta tell ya I didn't think it wld work but it's been so much fun! he asks me if he receives points for doing 'this' or if I wld deduct points for him doing 'that' lol

I've gotta say it seemed odd at first but it kinda brings the 'childish fun' to our relationship and I'm a lot happier again 😍

@kittysoftpawz, @taytay88 @babymaciesmomma @sarahssmommiee @ingridm89 it's so sad and stressful

@poozie813445, wow 😳. That's great that this worked out for you maybe I should think of something like that

Yes it is and I always tell him like you need to help more and he'll be like on my days off I do like no you don't everytime I ask him to do something he gets an attitude or I'll take a nap and wake up and she soaked like what's wrong wit you I just think so negative sometimes like if I wasn't here who would take care of our kids cause he sure wouldn't @cincin

@sarahssmommiee, I think that too sometimes.. if I'm gone for part/most of the day and come home and its complete chaos! sometimes id just rather not leave/take a nap/what have you lol

@cincin, give it a try! I didn't think he'd be up for something that seems so 'petty' but its great! lol