@1time_mommy, @queenbadu I have the same problem I have to ride to get one, but now I have back problems and I can't so I order a rechargeable toy oft, ebay.com and I get my husband to use it on me and then we try other positions so he can get his.

I had to learn how to ride to get myself off . & that's the only way for me on him

Yeah spencer aren't expensive at all just so you can get yourself off cause you deserve to release too

Yes, we had try everything like my husband help me a lot sometimes I will get tired I try but I don't know what wrong 😓 me ainbowbaby2015

I had being thinking about buying a toy to be honest lol @queenbadu

And I use to feel the same way . They say you just have to learn your body and every man doesn't know what they doing honestly

I've been having sex for 6 years and only had an orgasm with 1 guy for approximately 3 months. Have you tried different positions?

I had to make myself have my first one with a toy lol I guess I don't be focused enough during sex