Unfortunately thats your best bet for getting her out like tomorrow LOL.....we are trying to hold off until at least sunday to do it and get her out bcuz shes already pushing down so hard and we are progressing nicely. So trust me.....do the deed and she will be set free lolol(of the womb)😍😂👌🏽 Im really just trying not to move too much bcuz everytime im up and about i start contracting. So that will work!! Good luck!! 💖💕💖💕💖

we did once this weekend. it was pretty scary for both of us. but we have both decided to try and do it every night for the rest of the week to try and get her here before they leave. @heera

Ohhh yea I understand that too then....ide be pretty broken about that....ok so if your 4cm and 80% effaced...if you havent been doing it already....have SEX....that will speed things up. If youve made it to 4....sex should do the trick at this point!! 💖💕💖.

it's really hard not to stress about it. my in laws are leaving on a cruise on Sunday and I don't know what I'll do if they are gone while she comes. I know it would break my husbands heart. obviously I don't want her to stay in there till they get back so I am worrying about that. @heera @valrocks

Yes but your water can break at any time and if your 4cm then you can be 5 cm by tomorrow...for a first timer thats amazing.....the more you push and push and keep being too anxious that can delay things too unfortunately...i wasnt dilated at all and then two days later I was 1cm...then 2 days later 1cm and 50% effaced and who knows what I'm at now lol...... just be a little patient she'll be here soon💖💕💖💕💖.

I totally get it. My son was 9lbs 13oz and I had over 2 liters of fluid in me. It was like carrying a bowling ball in a water balloon

thanks, I am just getting so uncomfortable. I was really hoping to be closer @valrocks

Hey. That's pretty good for a first timer. I was only 2cm at 40 weeks.