i feel like im not excited for this baby not now and not ever since we found out...will i not love…

Girl I'm in the same boat as you like when we found out i was expecting baby #2 i was not excited just because my first was only 7 months and she only gonna be 1 when her sibling gets here but yet even if you think you wont love that baby but you will maybe you were not ready for another baby because you wanted to have time for your first but eventually you will love him and want him so don't worry about it so much mama , Because like I said I am in the same boat as you and to be honest i still don't feel like i want this baby but i will know my first will have someone to grow up with and play with .

Girllll me too

thank you :) and yes i think thays why i dont want him at the moment. ..with my first i didnt want to spent tine with him just look at him from a distance. for like 4 days...then i cried of happiness. so i hope i warm up to this one in less tgan 4 days @smileeey

i mean you probably got pp depression with your first because i know i did and i still have it but just keep in mind that your first born and this one on it way will be growing up together and have someone to play with because a lot of siblings are age apart that you just like eeeh i wished i had his/her brother/sister before so they could have some one to play with . also don't worry some mamas will get pp depression and some wont so if you get it just try to get help from your partner or go get counseling so it won't get worse , I'm telling you this because some just don't want their kids around them and treat them bad not saying you will but I wouldn't want you to just push your babies because you got ppd or because you were not ready but just have faith in God that he will get you through all this and will let you love your babies that you wont even think about it after you see them grow together mama ☺

@jazmin805,

@smileeey, your right..thank you so so much..

no problem that is why we are here to give a little help and to support our mamas , if ever need someone just message me @jazmin805