So my sons been here 3 weeks on Friday.. And I've kinda forgotten about the fact I have a place I can vent without worrying about it . So here it goes , because no matter what now when I hear my boyfriend talk about his mom I can't help but think about the fact that when she came to see us in the hospital , my boyfriend told me she asked if he was gonna get a DNA test done , and don't get me wrong , I like his mom and she's very kind to me otherwise , but this still has me irritated/upset. And also a couple of other people have asked him that. Mind you, before me and him got together I had only been in 3 serious relationships with girls , never had an actual boyfriend , if I was with a guy which was pretty much when I was younger still figuring myself out , which was only two guys , it wasn't serious . He's the first guy I've ever had a serious relationship with . So we been together over a year now , why do people seem to think I'm a slut or something ??? I normally don't put my business out here like that but I'm curious how y'all would feel ? Cause it's still bothering me . I don't want this to cause issues with me and his mom and I'm curious if maybe I'm just overreacting ?
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Right , he isn't worried about getting one done . It just bothers me that people think he should have . @towens921 @jgruenwald
Yes @jgruenwald i don't think it's anybody else's business but those in the relationship
I've been there. My story is a little different. but my bf's dad and even his friends told him to get a DNA test done. but we haven't because he and I both know he's the father. @towens921 is right though talk to you bf if you two don't feel the need to do then don't worry about it
It would bother me. I'm alittle sensitive at times so I may be the wrong person to say. Sometimes ppl judge because of your sexually and automatically think your "out there". Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how it makes you feel
@kp_111516, then don't worry about it hon. everyone is gonna think what they think. hell even if you got a DNA test done that don't mean they'll believe it. people are stupid sometimes. I wouldn't worry I know it's upsetting but people are asses sometimes. @towens921 it isn't anyone's business but everyone tends to think it is. I was fb stalk by people my bf and I use to work with mainly girls that wanted my bf. anyways these girls kept saying that baby isn't yours well she was born and looks just like my bf every shape way and form. and now these girls are like oh wow she was right she does look just like him. people are stupid and think stupid things. don't let it bother you some are jealous of what you have or they aren't happy with their life so they gotta make everyone's life miserable or well try to.