So it's official I'm single and soon going to have my son, no daddy and no step dad either. Wow men…

I left my ex at almost 38 weeks. I packed up all mine and the babies things and moved back home 3 hrs away. Best thing I could of ever done. And once baby is here you'll have a love so strong, stronger than any love you've ever known from some jerk and be so happy without a man! Who needs them?! My ex drives me nuts still ugh! Just when I think we can be friends he does something to piss me off 🙄

This has gotta be hard for you but I'm glad you are dealing with things in a healthy way it seems. You will be a great mom. I will keep both you and baby in my prayers

@missjess damn I'm sorry that happened but I'm happy you got out. I just feel lost now he was my bestfriend and my boyfriend and now it's just done and over with. @breezy1993 It really is and thank you I'm going to need it.

Can I asked what happened? @rockeyy11_26_16

@breezy1993 it's on my other post from before this one. It's a lot that happened.

ohhhh okay I read it I would have been mad as hell but IDK if I would have on the spot broke up with him. I definitely wouldn't/don't let my man have any girl best friends because that unnecessary and is a slippery slope just like I'm not out here with boy best friends. I would have been like since you think it's so funny to joke about getting with her I don't trust you anymore its me or her. I don't think you overreacted though but just in case y'all make up don't let him have no girl best friends js

@breezy1993 I told him to choose between me and him and he said no comment so I broke up with him. From day one I told him to dump her as a friend but nope.

Yep I would be like boyyy bye. You will be better off without the bs even if it don't seem like it. Never settle cause the good for nothing men come a dime a dozen and ain't worth it. But it's worth it to wait for your king.

@breezy1993 I thought he was going to be my king now I don't know anymore.

TBH he doesn't sound like one. well hope that the person we choose to date will be that person but that's not always the case. You are so young trust me when I say you have plenty of time to meet the right man who won't judge you or make you feel insecure etc no relationship is perfect but to me it's sounds like he has something going on with this "friend" and he let a guilty conscience slip in the form of a "joke" I get a bad feeling from this whole situation. You deserve someone who doesn't pick a "friend" over you

If he was your king you would be first and also his queen. Ain't nobody above the queen you feel me?

I feel you. I just left nothing was ever talked about. My ex is horrible at communicating and avoids conflict at any cost. It's been hard it's not what I wanted or ever thought would happen. But we both deserve so much better! And one day we will find a man worthy of us. So for now just concentrate on baby and you! If you ever need to talk I'm always here :)

@breezy1993 it's funny you say that he just texted me he's sorry and that he wants me back and that he chooses me. He did treat me like his queen about 2 months ago.

@missjess I've been trying to focus on my son and thanks I will take that into consideration.

I would say I will believe it when I see it lol he better get on that act right get right program like now

lol but seriously I wouldn't take him back til he proves he's done with her. otherwise he's gonna think he can do whatever

@breezy oh no see if I take him back I'm going on strike from sex for atleast 4 months he has to earn that shit back. Plus he definitely has to earn back my respect and trust.