Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
I don't know why it pisses me off that my mother in law is always saying something about my sons hair. I'm not cutting it so stfu. I love his curls. His hair is actually all the way down to the middle of his back.
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
Then tell him "I'm going back home to visit my family for a while. I'm unhappy and you don't want to fix things." Pack a bag. See what he does and says.
Jessica·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes his first wife and mom did not get along again because of boundary issues @bonniesue he says he is over it but I don't know, the biggest issue is his mom. I can't be unhappy the rest of my life and I've offered him counseling but he says he doesn't need someone to tell him what more is wrong then he already knows.
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
Still with issues, Your wife dies and just three months pass would be way too quick. And an inappropriate time frame for proper grieving/healing. Did you ever ask how his first wife and mom got along? You have the options of couples therapy, ignoring/not feeding into the issue or leaving. Fighting him constantly will not fix it and probably force him more on to his mother.
Jessica·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah it was very fast. She was cheating on him and their house was in foreclosure so there were a lot of issues. I'm just not gonna be disrespected and I have boundaries I don't need to be walked all over and constantly put down when I've given up so much. So frustrating! And I don't know what to do. @bonniesue
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
That's a really quick jump. Has he ever been in therapy? He probably has some deep issues. If he can't stand up for you and see the error of his moms ways, you'll be unhappy for a long time.
Jessica·
Мама сына-младенца
The kids have been in therapy, they are getting better but it's mostly him and his mom.. I can't keep living like this & always makes defends her actions! We've only been married a year and a half and been together for three years just three months after his wife passed. @bonniesue
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
Are the kids in therapy? Losing your mother is very difficult, and now their dad has a new child. They could be feeling replaced and not loved. Just a thought. He's an adult, he needs to cut the umbilical cord with his mom. How long have you been together and how long have you been married?