I need to just rant I guess, okay so lately I feel like my boyfriend has lost total interest in me.…

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, I might not fully know how you feel or have the best advice but I'm always a message away if you need another mom to talk to💖

I know you said you don't want advice but of it makes you feel any better I've been there. the whole time I was pregnant husband didn't seem like he could give 2 shits. I tried to get his attention many times and finally gave up. I started sleeping I'm the guest room and avoided him at all times. He finally caught on and we sat down and had a long serious talk. Turns out it was the hormones and it's COMPLETELY normal. if you need anyone to talk to I'm here. hang in there it gets better

I've felt this way a lot in my marriage. For many reasons but it always turned out I was overthinking. Sometimes I had good reason to overthink but I see little ways that he expresses how much I mean to him. Even tho we don't get along the greatest it always come out how much we love each other. ❤️

@6215teenmom, thank you I appreciate that a lot!! I have no friends what so ever to talk to so I just feel so alone and like I don't even know how to describe it. But thank you!

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, same. as a teen mom it's hard to make friends.

@mommy2be711, I've tried talking to him. It goes literally no where. We sit there for hours talking in circles. Half the time it comes to a point I tell him to just leave me alone and I have no good reason he just straight gets on my nerves half the time. And honestly I felt like he was loosing interest before we found out I was pregnant. Then we found out and now I feel like he's the guy I sleep next too at night. And if I even attempt to be cute he kinda just brushes it off. Who knows.

@morganmommy79, I hope it's just over thinking. Because I truly do love him but I feel like there is nothing keeping us together except our daughter growing inside me lol. It's really hard to explain I guess. Lol

@6215teenmom, I feel like no matter what age the second you get pregnant all your damn friends go ghost until you have the baby then their all like I wanna hold It!! Like where the fuck were you these past 9 months? lol

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, I'm 17 with 2 babies under 2. and all my friends care about is partying and guys. but I mean I'm in high school so I understand. but I can't really talk to them because they don't understand.

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, i think I understand. I've been divorced and now looking back I see that it could've been fixed. Too late. But I'm in love with my husband! Very much, too. I have to remind myself that until he proves differently I'm just overthinking. 😊

@6215teenmom, yeah i can see that. I have friends with babies but unfortunately they either live too far away or one was a recovering drug addict and now she's back into it. So like I definitely understand. Lol

@morganmommy79, I try to tell myself that as well but sometimes it's hard because when he acts like he doesn't want a damn thing to do with me then how do I convince myself I'm just over thinking? Lol too me actions speak louder than words and right now his actions are absolutely nothing lol

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, we never know what to think really, men don't always communicate with us. Don't let a good thing slip away tho if nothing outstanding is happening. Maybe the pregnancy is weirding him out. Guys get that way sometimes. My husband says we fight too much and that's why he stays to himself at times and I imagine him cheating, leaving, all kinds of crazy things lol but I've never found evidence of such. 😂

@morganmommy79, I feel like my biggest problem is I keep comparing myself to the past women in his life. (Which I know I shouldn't) but I feel like that's the only way I can truly understand how he feels about me. Like his last gf he actually tried to have a baby with and they couldn't. Then with me boom we're pregnant and not even together for 5 months. He straight told me he wanted to marry her. Then he accidentally gets me pregnant. (She is very wanted don't get me wrong lol) but I feel like this isn't what he wanted at all. But now he's stuck with it sort of thing

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, I think you're feeling this way because you do know his past. And I do the very same thing. My husband loves to sing, has for years. Every time he sings a song about an ex (not his) I automatically think he's thinking of her and we argue. 🙄 my overthinking gets us in trouble sometimes.

Have you guys discussed marriage yet? I know it's early...

@morganmommy79, yeah he keeps telling me he wants to go get me a ring but use my Kay jewlers credit card and make the payments. But I feel like the only reason he wants too is because ever since he got me pregnant my father and brother have threatened him to within an inch of his life basically saying that if he doesn't marry me they're going to hunt him down. So how am I supposed to know that that's for real?

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, yeah I think I'd question that too. Simply because I would want no pressure from anyone. Don't jump into it. Let him do it on his own time. How was your relationship before getting pregnant?

@morganmommy79, I don't really say anything I just kinda let it go. But our relationship was pretty good I guess, I'm not going to lie all we did was smoke pot and basically sleep unless we were working. So I can't really say cause we were always too high to even have a conversation. But right before I got pregnant I felt like he was loosing interest I was bringing it up too him constantly. And he just kept brushing it off. Then we found out i was pregnant and he got super distant. Like I already have a mental illness to begin with, and I was battling with it pretty hard before I got pregnant, and he was super supportive but then it was like one day he just stopped caring/trying to help.

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, it's possible that he's feeling distant because of the way you feel. You guys need a good ole fashion conversation, just start it another way. Lol how did he react when he found out you were pregnant?

@morganmommy79, when we talk we go in circles for hours, it's pretty painful lmfao. And when I took the test he was with me, we were both high so he wasn't like jumping up and down he was just very quiet lol. But that was the last time we smoked and even the next day he was quiet, and basically quiet every day after that. He won't really bring her (the baby) up in conversation, I have to initiate it and if I try telling him she's moving he puts his hand on my stomach for maybe 10 seconds says he can't feel it and just goes back to doing whatever he was doing lol. Like he doesn't really have any interest whatsoever. He cares if she's healthy and all of that don't get me wrong but other than that he's like eh. And likes to constantly tell me how im getting fat and make fun of me for eating as much as I do 😒

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, ok my husband def does that too. I have to encourage him to put his hand on my stomach and feel her or talk to her. He won't do it on his own. And even tho I know he's super excited he rarely shows it. I've even asked him sev times why aren't u happy??? I really think some men just don't get it. Give it more time before making any huge decisions. Guys are all different and react differently to things. It's possible that he's scared taking on a new responsibility. It can freak out some guys. Doesn't mean he's not happy about it too tho. Take your mind off of things and do something for yourself. I'll do the same. 😊

@morganmommy79, Thank you! And thank you for talking to me it helped a lot!! ☺️

@mommy_too_be3.24.17, no problem!! Anytime!!! 😊😊😊