@babygirl10-11, thanks hun, if anything I'll just "brace" myself.. i know you weren't intending to scare anyone.

@wethreepeas, dont be scared its definitely different for everyone it hurt to me but it might be ok for you my mom has 7 kids and to her she enjoyed that part said it felt good ... and i honestly think my nurse did it way to rough ..... i wasnt trying to scare anyone

omg this post right here scares the fuck outta me 😢

I dont think they need to be that rough 😑

@kambam, yesssss with my first baby when they first started i pushed her hands back like wtf that shit hurts and then she explained why i let her finish but i screamed so loud

that alone was enough to make me say NEVER AGAIN lmao. in postpartum ward I legit told my nurse id punch her. shes like ok ill just touch lightly so I can mark off that I did it 😂 lol thank god. then every time they asked if someone did it I lied and said yes 🙈

they did it until with every push I stopped bleeding. it was terrible. I cringed every time and the first one I cried. so yeah for me, it was harder than labor because I didnt have s vaginal.birth lol

@mommyof1boyy, yessss thats exactly what they did aftet my second (not a c section tho) but i had some bleeding issues after so they did that every 30 mins for 6hrs and it was brutal they kept saying o your bleeding to much but i was like i only bleed like that when u push on my belly like if u would stop i might be ok

it was so uncomfortable. she did it everyday until I left 😑

after my second baby i had 2 nurses come and push on my belly together

I had a c section and she didn't "massage" it, she literally pressed on my stomach and made sure with every push I didn't bleed. it was HORRIBLE.

for me it was worse then labor @snozzberries

I wouldn't say it's worse then labor lol but it's uncomfortable for sure

yes @serenemom the nurse will come in a few minutes after baby is born and use all her strength to come and push down on your belly ..... for me it was brutal i screamed and i didnt even scream during labor ive heard a few say they liked it tho

oh I know! to get everything else out. it's awful!

yes that is terrible! 😢😢