My full 40 days of pp recovery are up & i would like to have sex again with hubby but I've never been scared to do so till now lmao I've heard it hurts after birth ? I had stitches down their also so it makes me not wanna have sex at all. I'll just wait to see my doctor & see if she gives me the ok to do so 😣
Have a glass of wine before to help you relax. Get tons of foreplay and don't be afraid to use lots of lube. Start slow. Talk to your bf before hand and let him know that you can't gurantee the outcome but you're going to try it out. If you say stop, he needs to respect that and understand without getting mad. That's my advice.
Surprisingly, it didn't hurt for me at all. But I didn't get stitches or anything because I didn't tear. It was just the tiniest bit of pressure at first but then it was amazing. Just start off slow. Even with foreplay. It gets better and easier every time.
Just go slow! I was scared at first but it wasn't bad just felt different the first few times. It was very much needed to be intimate again. Granted I waited 2 weeks. lol
LUBE