Experienced moms..Did you all tear during delivery with your first? I’m expecting with my first and I keep watching YouTube videos on how to avoid tearing LOL I’m so fearful. Can it really be avoided ? 🤭if so how ...

Omg I’m in tears I got off work and decided to lay down and I can barely get up or walk my hips are killing me :( and I have a cramp in my right buttcheek tmi

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,

his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Do you tear more the second time around or just depends? I had a first degree tear with my first but kinda getting a little nervous as I'm getting closer lol...

Waddling so bad tonight 😂 my hips hurt like hell.