I'm only 4 weeks pp, still healing and whatnot and my child's father is already talking about baby number 2 and his dream of wanting to get pregnant around August so we have the next baby in May (his birthday month) since Bella was born in October (my birthday month) 😳😭 his ass needs to chill out, first of all I'm nowhere near ready to even think of having sex yet with the tearing I had and how much pain I'm still in, and I'm not doing two under two (Not that that's a bad thing, I give moms in that boat SOOO much respect because I'd be going bat shit crazy if that was me), I'm going back to school within the next year and will also be hopefully working more, and I don't want to experience labor again any time soon lol, maybe 3-4 years from now, but baby number 2 within the next year and a half?! Not happening lol
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@jennc100495, good for you. stay strong. dont give in.
@mrsmord, @kayla767 @adensmommy lol oh trust me I'm definitely waiting! One is enough for us right now, he can keep talking about it all he wants but I'm not changing my mind until I'm personally ready for baby #2 myself
girl, deff wait you don't want two under two specially since u have so much going on , I have kids 10 1/2 months apart and it was he'll I love them and it was worth it but I'm also a SAHM.
i also had some tearing with my son who was also my first im almost 9 wks pp and your SO needs to chill. i would not be ready for baby number 2 right away. please wait to have #2 just let him dream but dont let him push you into it. just enjoying being a new mom and dad with you new bundle of joy.
of course , it takes a toll on us and our bodies and our minds they don't understand that because all they gatta do is basically halve sex . they don't get it trust me my husband wanted a second one right away which happened but I was actually depressed for a very long time bc of it . ( now I'm happy of course) and now he wants another one my baby will be 1 in December but I'm not having another one until he's maybe 2 . too bad .