So I have a little rant/question. My husband and I keep fighting because I feel like I'm just a maid, so I wanted to see what you ladies think. Everyday my husband comes home, spends and hour or more in the bathroom on Facebook and showering then just sits in his recliner while I take care of our daughter. It doesn't bug me taking care of her it bugs me that I work too almost every day after he gets off and he will not watch her while I get ready and then when I leave he just sleeps and let's her sleep the entire time I'm at work and usually doesn't wake her until about 8 so when I get home at about 10 or 11 I stay up all night with her while she's wide awake because she already slept. He complains that I need to keep her quiet when he sleeps because he has to work, but he won't help me at night either at all. He tells me to sleep during the day but I have a whole house, dog and daughter to take care of, I can't just sleep. So when I don't do the dishes or skip on laundry he gets so mad but he doesn't clean at all or pick up after himself even a little bit. Am I crazy or is this shit? I try to talk to him about it but we just fight and nothing changes I'm so tired of doing everything and having to have dinner made before he gets home before I go to work. It's a lot and I just wish I had help!
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tell him to take turns one night you can do something and other is his night. It's understandable people get tired from work, but that is no excuse to never do anything else everyday.
stop cooking for him just cook for yourself, don't wash his clothes only yours and the baby, don't pick up after him, don't pick up anything from the store like deodorant body wash ect. He'll see how much you do fast when he has nothing to eat or clothes to wear. He may get mad at first but just walk away.
Screen shot this or write it down and give it to him. Because its is honesty
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