Moms please help! I'm a first time mom and my daughter drives me CRAZY! She always wants to be carried, walked around the house, like everything literally had to be her way if not we will never hear the end of it. What can I do? Do I just let her cry if I know she not hungry and her diaper is changed?
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Yes if you know she's absolutely fine it's okay to just let her cry sometimes . You don't want to get to the point where you can't do anything or go anywhere or anyone else can't help with her . Babies can get spoiled even though some think they can't . And when they do it's a lot harder . Run to her demand when she's in need or even sometimes when not because that's your baby . But holding her all the time just because we'll have her that way . Let her sit and cry sometimes she'll catch on that your not going to run to her every time she makes a noise . My God daughter cries allllllllll day when her mom is around my bestie can't do anything without holding her can't even leave the room for a second with my God daughter screaming like she's dying but as soon as she picks her up she stops . But she doesn't do that with me if I leave the room she wine alil but If she sees me or hears my voice she's fine I can clean up and do w.e without holding her . And if she cries sometimes I just let her . I be telling my friend just let her cry sometimes but she refuses now she has to go back to work and no one wants to watch the baby because all she does is cry most of the time and no one wants to hold her all day or hear her cry it out for however long that last . When me and her boyfriend was trying to tell her stop holding her so much and running to her when you know she's really fine .
Girl... @lena916 I have the same problem. Both sides of family spoiled the crap out of my son. So I bought a baby carrier and on the days he whines constantly I put him in that. I have the ergo carrier and it's a life saver. But some days you just have to let them cry.
All I can tell you is to be really patient with her!! I had a bad experience with my first one, but is just a moment that they are little and they need you and want you 24/7 imagine spending 9 months inside of your body and this is all new for her!! Anyways. Enjoy this time with her !!!! @nadinemt1
you can. or you can get a carrier and do hands free or use a pack n play or something in the same room as you.
I have her crib in my room and nothing is good enough for her. She's so spoiled and it's not even my fault. I try to put my foot down with her grandparents and her father but it's like they don't listen and I'm the one that's left to suffer. @lena916
@nadinemt1, that's what I did I put her in seat in the same room with me
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
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I know I try my best but I'm a stay at home mom so I have to cook clean do laundry etc and honestly she doesn't really give me time to do anything at all. I'm lucky if I brush my teeth before 3pm. It's just really frustrating cause nothing I do works. But thank you for your words ... I'll just try harder @adradna92