Is it bad that I spoke to my sister and she's giving me the altimatum of her having temporary…
Is it bad that I spoke to my sister and she's giving me the altimatum of her having temporary custody of my son or never speak to her again. That's not fair to me and I honestly don't know what I should do. I do not want to lose my relationship with her. I mean I have other sisters but it's not fair to me. What should I do????
Amber Jacq ·
why would she get temporary custody of your kid? that's dumb it's not her kid to have custody of and if my sister put me in the situation I'd be like forget you and never speak to her again and I only have one sister and she's 5 years older then me
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq because she thinks I am not capable of taking care of my own child. I have 4 sisters 2 are older and the 2 are younger I'm in the middle.
Amber Jacq ·
well tell her to get over herself because all she's going to do is take your kid away and get attached to it and fight you everytime you want custody back so you might as well keep your kid in your custody, you're the mother not her so tell her to kiss your butt and tell her she ain't getting your kid
Amber Jacq ·
and how old are you if you dont mind me asking?
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq I am 18 years old. I told her no after she suggested it. I wouldn't dare give her custody of my son. I can't do it.
Amber Jacq ·
it's probably because of your age and I think that's stupid just because you're young doesn't mean that you're a unfit mom I think you'll be a good mom so just keep saying no to her she's just trying to take what you have
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq I know she is she's been doing it all my life.
Amber Jacq ·
well tell her if she's going to get mad and choose to ruin yalls relationship over you not giving her custody of YOUR son then she can go on and never speak to you again cause you aren't going to pick her over YOUR CHILD
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq I haven't spoken to her since yesterday and I would never choose our relationship over my son.
Amber Jacq ·
that's a good thing and you need to tell her that and if she don't like it then forget her you don't need that type of negative person in your life trust me I have 3 parents who are the most negative people I've been met and im about to give all 3 of them the boot
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq my boyfriend told me to get rid of all the negative people in my life and that would be my whole family on my mom's side.
Amber Jacq ·
it would probably be best but it's hard to that's why it's taking me so long but you can only have so much patience for people
Deliaha Day·
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@amberjacq Yeah you are right