Is it normale to be scared of birth? This makes my 3rd pregnancy but I had a miscarriage with my 1st…

@ehq, I just worry I'll not be able to remember everything I need to an miss up

I hope my boyfired can help me remember everything and help me keep strong

what are u writing down?

@lena916, nothing yet but I'm sure I'll have a book by the time my baby is ready to come.

@peanutsmomma2b, how many months r u?

@lena916, I'm just 18 weeks today

@peanutsmomma2b, everything going good other then the diabetes?

@peanutsmomma2b, it's normal to be nervous but it's not sure you'll figure it out and the doctors and walk you through everything hey when I went into labor my daughter decided at the last minute you want to come out and the nurse had to jump across my stomach and shove her out of me I had bruises all up and down my rib cage but I survived it I don't remember much of it cuz I was on the epidural but I made it. I didn't feel a thing my husband watch the whole thing it was great it was awesome if I could do it again I would do it again

I got peed on a lot in the hospital by my son when I changed his diaper my daughter peed on me a lot when she was born to cuz don't let them fool you they can be on You too @peanutsmomma2b

the epidural is like the miracle drug don't know if you're planning to get it or not but you can't feel anything until time to push and then you feel just the right amount of pain you can feel everything going on down there that you need to feel

@peanutsmomma2b,

No one knows exactly what they're doing. It'll come to you , it's just something that happens When you become a mother . You'll have motherly instincts. No one is perfect , we all mess up And we learn as we go. As far as birth goes , our bodies are made for this ! I delirvered naturally, never thought I could but I did , and extremely proud of myself . Nothing against anyone who gets medication or the epidural or even a c-section. As long as that baby gets delivered that's all that matters. It's true what people say , after that baby is born all the pain you went through does not matter at all . I did it natural and had a 3rd degree tear. Lol , but I'd still do it all over again for my little princess .

I was so scared and I ended up having the perfect labor. Didn't have contractions until I was dilated to a 6 and I was in labor for 4 hours. I didn't have an epidural and I loved not having one, yes it hurt like hell but the pain is temporary. I really recommend trying to go without anything for pain.

yes @peanutsmomma2b I'm having my second kid due in 7 weeks && I'm so nervous and scared even though I know what labor gonna b like, it been little over then 3 1/2 years that I had my daughter and it's nervous but I know everything is gonna b fine but regardless I'm still scared