Every mom close to me was a single mother and has multiple kids. I have one child (she turned 2 months this week!) and a supportive husband. They make fun of me when I ask for help, and say "when I had so-and-so, I did all this on my own! I didn't have help!"
I hate feeling inadequate because I ask for help.
my aunt on the other hand her kids were little hellions she need lots of help
my best friend was a single mom and she really didn't need much help her son was so easy sleep through the night early and would always play quietly by himself and was awesome with other kids
shot in have a husband, and I still ask for more help. it all depends on ur situation, and ur child too
my mil does that when I complain about my husbands schedule and doctor appts not working together. she says that my FIL never went to them with her. that just means my husband cares a bit more. I have a right to complain. he got me pregnant he is in this all the way! I'm sorry that some people have to go it alone but that doesn't mean we need to watch what we say and not ask for help.