Every mom close to me was a single mother and has multiple kids. I have one child (she turned 2 months this week!) and a supportive husband. They make fun of me when I ask for help, and say "when I had so-and-so, I did all this on my own! I didn't have help!"
I hate feeling inadequate because I ask for help.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
She ignored me the whole ride should have went to sleep when I asked u to 😂😂😂
So I put this on Facebook today for Father's Day and two people have messaged me asking if I was pregnant! ?
Is it weird that I get annoyed at the thought of people helping me when baby is home? People ask me this all the time. My SO and I plan to share night shifts, etc. Am I stubborn? It's our kid so I feel like we can do it on our own👍🏼 lol.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
my mil does that when I complain about my husbands schedule and doctor appts not working together. she says that my FIL never went to them with her. that just means my husband cares a bit more. I have a right to complain. he got me pregnant he is in this all the way! I'm sorry that some people have to go it alone but that doesn't mean we need to watch what we say and not ask for help.
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Мама четверых детей
my aunt on the other hand her kids were little hellions she need lots of help
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Мама четверых детей
my best friend was a single mom and she really didn't need much help her son was so easy sleep through the night early and would always play quietly by himself and was awesome with other kids
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Мама четверых детей
shot in have a husband, and I still ask for more help. it all depends on ur situation, and ur child too
Kimberly ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
They're probably jealous they didn't get any help.
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)
don't..... it is VERY nice to have someone to help you when you are a new mom and they are still tiny.... it's a scary time and everyone needs support. 90% of those girls I BET had their parents to help...... soooo they can shut their mouth lol