my mil does that when I complain about my husbands schedule and doctor appts not working together. she says that my FIL never went to them with her. that just means my husband cares a bit more. I have a right to complain. he got me pregnant he is in this all the way! I'm sorry that some people have to go it alone but that doesn't mean we need to watch what we say and not ask for help.

my aunt on the other hand her kids were little hellions she need lots of help

my best friend was a single mom and she really didn't need much help her son was so easy sleep through the night early and would always play quietly by himself and was awesome with other kids

shot in have a husband, and I still ask for more help. it all depends on ur situation, and ur child too

They're probably jealous they didn't get any help.

don't..... it is VERY nice to have someone to help you when you are a new mom and they are still tiny.... it's a scary time and everyone needs support. 90% of those girls I BET had their parents to help...... soooo they can shut their mouth lol