I need some advice. I want to talk to my mil, but I'm scared. there is a lot I want to talk to her about. but I'm afraid she'll get offended, that I'll look like a fool & end up crying and we'll end up arguing. I want to say how I feel it includes the health & safety of my daughter, her telling me what to do with my own body and relationship. we're not close at all, I want us to become close. and I think the way we can do that is by me talking to her and telling her the truth.