So my partner has promised to not drink these past few months but failed everytime! Now I'm due this month, he said he definitely will not go out or drink!
I'm holding my tongue and letting him have the odd drink at home and things! But now he has decided he is going out drinking on Friday!
So angry! Why make a promise and not keep to it!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😭😭😭😭😭😭
Put your foot down and don't let him get away with it. My other half don't drink but I mean with anything, make it known you ain't messing around like mother_of_humans said and let him know you mean business
The only thing I can do is tell him how u feel. Have u got someone else who can be with u in case. I had my daughter on standby . Mine will even try and take my little one out in the car after drinking wine!
Thanks @h04 I hate this!!! I've been laying here upset for over an hour now...had enough of feeling like this 😢
Mine did this but he drank every day . Good luck as I know how hard it is .
Mm 😭😭 I don't get it...he is so excited and ready for babies arrival but don't seem to care about how I'm feeling! I have to bottle up so much...@mother_of_humans xx
I've tried😭 I try not get upset and argue but then he winds me up by not listening to how I feel!! I don't mind the odd one, but he is going to go out and get pissed again!! Whilst I'm stuck at home on my own as usual! @mother_of_humans xx
Haha good on you!!! I wish I could do that, but it's not worth the drama😩 just hiding in the bedroom now, don't even wanna see him right now as had enough! Why can't guys have to go through all this too?!😡xx
I can't help it! He doesn't seem to understand where I'm coming from! Don't say you're going to do something and then go against it time and time again! Really thought he would stick to it this time, considering I could drop anytime now!! Thankyou xx😘
Please don't get too upset to the point your in a state beaut! I know it's probably hard! But if you ever need a chat in here Hun!@mariaelizabeth xxx
So once again, I'm sitting on my own crying to the point where I'm nearly sick in a panic attack, whilst he sits in the other room with a can of beer..not giving a fuck 😰
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??
Thanks ladies 😘 we didn't really speak for nearly 4hours, then went to bed! Woke up this morning and we going to have a chat ✌🏻️ see how this goes, I'm going to try not get upset and just talk but it's hard xx