my SO and i rnt married would it be easier for my to get full custody
@cubanese, i dont smoke anywhere near my son. i go outside. my home is smoke free.
@cubanese, and @nwhite0823 i smoke cigarettes would that go against me if this goes to court? im on maternity leave and i work second shift i have my drivers permit. he has his license a car he occasionally drinks but not to the point where he is drunk. he is verbally abusive when we fight. i am breastfeeding. our son is 7 and a half weeks old.
Right now as a social work if y'all live in the same state nobody gets more right than the other. A lot of women are trying to pull the breastfeeding card which does work anymore they will tell you to supplement. And you have to prove they are unfit...
@cubanese, we got into this huge fight and im scared I might lose our son to someone that doesnt spend time with him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
@cubanese, no none of that will go against you or him. As long as the child is not endanger. But it seems like you want to take the child because you guys are not together and he treats you bad not bc of anything he has done to the child. I can promise you if he's not harming your child you have no right to pick for your child if there father should be in their life or not. But if he can prove your using that child against him, you can be in some trouble. You will enjoy those moments a lone knowing your child is safe with their father, instead of some stranger or having to pay someone to keep him