Another little rant for your Wednesday. I am a Christian. And if anyone else on here is a Christian also, then you know that I am by no means perfect. I got pregnant out of wedlock while my husband and I were still engaged. We married two weeks after the baby arrived. I'm 20 years old and I should be in the Emerge group at my church which is for college-age students. Since I'm married and have a baby, I moved into the young adult group. I relate more to them now. I kind of feel left out though. I'm a little too young to be invited to a young adult get together and most of the Emerge group has basically shunned me. The Emerge pastors don't even talk to me anymore. Meanwhile I see all the Emerge people going to college and getting these jobs that they've always wanted and their pastor is all "way to go" and "wow you're doing so good". But ever since I got pregnant it's like they can't come near me. I'm literally so lonely. My friends who used to be my friends are no longer my friends.
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Their behavior doesn't sound very christian-like. They're being very judgmental. Things happen but that's between you & God. If our creator is a loving, forgiving God then who are they. I know its hurtful but you can't let it break you. The others your age may not know how to relate to your situation so instead they choose to stay away. Make the best life for you & your little family. Don't worry about them.
Then they aren't true Christians honey. don't let them tear you down. so what things didn't happen according to their plan. they can shove it. you do you and take care of your baby. most people will pull away from those who have babies just because that's what they do.
Honey I know what your going through 100%!! I moved in with my boyfriend (husband now) and his son (my stepson) and it felt like everyone disowned me and I lost some family and all my friends even the church kicked me off the worship team. I felt so alone! Now I'm expecting a baby and I've realized that I still have my best friend (my husband) and my family (my babies) the church will come around eventually, maybe you need to remind them that no one is perfect! Sorry that your going through this! ☹️️
Yea, that behavior isn't Christ like.....No one is perfect, and everyone makes a mistake. Don't let that bring you down.....you fixed the situation, just move on.....