why don't men understand that being a mother is exhausting af? 😣😥🤔
@leahsmommi, the crazy thing is before I got pregnant I was like nocturnal. I'd stay up all night even worked nights and I was fine...now I'm just exhausted. can't wait until I'm able to fully adjust
@yellagirl936, I was a sahm for two or so years. School will be exhausting but so with it. You'll learn to live with the lack of sleep lol
@leahsmommi, girl you are definitely strong. I'm fixing to go back to school I can't imagine how tired I'm fixing to be. I'm a stay at home now and I'm just tired. like I need some energy. I feel so worn.
They are idiots lol I work full time and take care of my love. No help on weekends either. Shit is exhausting but staying home with a baby 24/7 hands down wins on making me tired af lol
@jtmsmom, my husband does that too. don't feel bad. It's nothing wrong with resting
@ssdj4, yesss! omgee. My whole thing is, i know you're tired but being a father isn't a Job it's a blessing. It's not hard to give us a break sometimes bc we're tired. I rarely hear from him while he's at work. and then when I do it's brief and then I'm just waiting for him to get off..i did but I went out got home at like 5 then had to pick her up at 11..smh...
Yes!!!! My SO had the nerve to tell my son "sorry Jackson mommy is too tired to play with you." F you!!! Lol
I thought about that because that's what I obviously get with him at work. if there is a serious problem I'll talk to him but other than that almost no contact. I think it's fair. but you did get your birthday break right? @yellagirl936
@ssdj4, my mom told me to do that, and I'm considering it. like sometimes on the weekends I go visit my parents and he gets rest...i never thought about the minimal contact before...thats a must try. I had my first break for my birthday and almost didn't bc my mom got sick that weekend. I told him I'm not having no more kids if I can help it....
@queen_of2, I feel like I never get enough sleep...like she sleeps through the night, but wakes up kinda early
Idk but they need to. I threaten my husband saying one day I'm just wake up early and leave for 8 hours with minimal contact and leave him with my kids and then we will talk about why I'm always stressed and tired and never want to do anything around the house. Then he'll get a small taste of it except the fact that we do this EVERY day in and out with no escape. The last time I went out with the girls I had to beg for because our grandma died that day (my girls are my sister and cousin) and I took them out for a girls evening. that was almost 2 months ago.
Same way with my son. Its like us as moms never get enough rest! 😒