I need advice 😔 my son will be 2 years old in may and I'm due the end of April but I don't have a career, a good job or anything. The only income I have Rn is my boyfriends. I know I can't afford another baby but i don't want to be labeled as a baby killer either I'd feel so bad. Someone PLEASE give me their honest opinion
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do whatever the hell u want and feel is right. if abortion or adoption or keeping the baby is what u truley want to do in ur heart, do it! seriously its no one elses choice or business they are 100% irrlevant.
Things happen for a reason. Remember back in the days women had like 6, 7 or more kids back to back & found ways to survive. You can do the same. You just have to stay focused. Do a little research online to find out about any work from home opportunities. With a little creativity & budgeting you can make it work. Do you have a hobby or passion like baking or doing hair? You can also do that on the side to make a little cash. My youngest will also be 2 next year in June & my new baby is due the same month. I will be out of work myself depending on my fiancé's income. The only thing that helps me is that I live in NJ. The state pays you for maternity leave. Good luck!
There's no shame in abortion. Or adoption. You do what you need to do, for you and your family.
Holy crap you won't be labeled as a baby killer that was harsh. Look for stay at home jobs. I know amazon and uhaul have stay at home opportunities. You can also do a part time 2 days a week overnight job that's what I'm doing.
Things will work out they always do, you just have to have faith. Parents do whatever it takes to be the greatest parents they can be. Weather that means you find a job, the daddy works more hours, or yes even adoption. If you are 100% sure you couldn't take care of the baby and you truly want the best for everyone you could give your baby up for adoption not only are you giving that baby a life you can't but you are blessing someone with the best gift ever. Good luck on whatever you do, I hope it will all work out for you!!!
It all depends on what you want. If you k ow that you absolutely want this baby, you could get a part time job or work when your boyfriend is at home, so that he can care for the 2 year old.
Plus there might be a chance where things are working out better for u 9 months down the road and you might fall in love with the baby . You'll do what's right either way. As long as u let life live
Look for some type of income; work from home jobs, etc. Or I agree with ☝🏽️, adoption.
everything will be fine a bby is a blessing trust in God things will get better for you. its not easy but don't give up.
Here's an option ... Adoption . A couple looking for a baby (they will pay for cost)
i sent you a message