Kayla M.
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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

no one knows I'm pregnant I turned 21 back in April when I was pregnant with my second. well I'm pregnant again but again no one knows my closest friend's birthday is on the 9th :( she's turning 21 and she wants to go out for drinks BUT I can't because I'm pregnant idk how to tell her I can't (because I really Dont want anyone to know) I know she'll be hurt but this is something I don't want people knowing :( please help

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sweetpeamommy
Nikki·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

lol I'm rooting for you! And I hope everything goes as planned

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@hernandez, i just dont want to deal with negativity @sweetpeamommy and yes I know what u mean I have to keep it a secret until I get my own place or longer because if I say anything I'll be out of a place (I stay with my in-laws) yes exactly and if I start showing or when I finally say something I'll be like I didn't even know xD

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sweetpeamommy
Nikki·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

@ppb14pj16, I know what you mean! I just had a baby 4 months ago too and I found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant. I don't wanna tell my in-laws because I don't wanna deal with no ones being judge mental and everything so I'm not gonna tell until Christmas. Obviously they're gonna find out sooner or later but might as well wait a while so it's not as bad.

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hernandez
jessica·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@ppb14pj16, girl fuxk everyone else... i have 6 bby on my last bby i have a 1 ywar old and a 2 year old and im 27 plus weeks,, ppl gonna talk let them talk u can do it,,, and yep its no one business,, so just tell ur friend and if she talks shit then she aint a real friend bc friends are there to help and listen to u not talk down

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@hernandez, because I just had a baby 4months ago plus its none of their business especially if they're just going to give me shit about being pregnant. I'll be getting my own place before I start showing. plus I'm already on the bigger side and I never show until I'm like 7-8months. anyways I Dont go out much so I really don't need to hide is as much

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@hart.momma, @leahsmommi @sweetpeamommy the car excuse would probably work but I Dont drive :( lol

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sweetpeamommy
Nikki·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

Maybe take your own car in case You have to leave early for your child

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hernandez
jessica·Мама дочки (8 лет)

can i ask why dnt u want ppl to knw and what are u gonna do when u start to show or have bby

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sweetpeamommy
Nikki·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

I would just say I'm not drinking because I'm driving:)

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luceromommy
Stephanie·Мама троих детей

I would just get sick... and then when you do say you're pregnant it'll be a that's why you were feeling shitty on my bday moment

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hart.momma
Kailynn·Мама сына (10 лет)

@ppb14pj16, just say they're weaker here or something 😂 wear a jacket so you get hot. Then maybe you'll turn red too lmao

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@hart.momma, thanks. (: I like all of these. especially with the non alcoholic drinks.

but unfortunately she knows when I'm good because my face turns tomato red :( lol

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Kailynn·Мама сына (10 лет)

@ppb14pj16, you could ask the waiter to have them make you some non alcoholic even if you order alcohol drink. Just explain why before she gets there. . A lot of bartenders & waiters are super cool about that stuff. Or just tell her you don't feel good so you don't want to drink. Or you'll have the babies after so you'd rather not drink.

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@spazzy_jazzy, I hope so because I do look younger than my age I always get ID'd at restaurants. @brudd330 I might go with that xD

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brittany·Мама дочки (10 лет)

well if u go with being sick at least it wouldn't be a lie but when u talk to her throw in that u got the sh**'s and can't leave ur house for nothing lol @ppb14pj16

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spazzy_jazzy

Conveniently "forget" your ID at home. It's not guaranteed, but it might help!

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Kayla M.·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@hart.momma, that's a good idea! but I honestly Dont know where we're going. /: @brudd330 I just might since I'm sick and I stay sick for like ever. I was just going to say hey I have no baby sitter (which I probably won't) but I know she'll just want to go out to like say chili's or margaritaville (a sit down restruant) and tell me to bring the kids. but idk...

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brittany·Мама дочки (10 лет)

just explain to her that ur not feeling well and that u just want to sleep it off

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hart.momma
Kailynn·Мама сына (10 лет)

If you're going to the bar, slip the bartender a tip & let them know. Ask if they will make you non alcohol drinks that looks like whatever everyone else is drinking.

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