depends how big the day care is hers was large so to many kids not enough adults to hold babiea through naps and as for the not taking a bottle, babies cant eat so that's a concern. if she can call asleep in your arms and then get transfered that'll be fine. and just keep working on the bottle! try different nipples and positioning.

@wethreepeas, ugh, really?! I didn't even think of that as a possibility!

i hope you have a good day care for her! i quit the one i was working at since the owner didnt give babies like this a chance for more then a few days broke my heart.