it's the year anniversary of my hubbys dad's death today so his ex wife decided she'd use today to…

it's the year anniversary of my hubbys dad's death today so his ex wife decided she'd use today to start an argument with him.....she's told him he keeps letting his son down and that he doesn't care since he got out of hospital 7 weeks ago (he had a heart attack, he's been back in hospital twice since then last hospital stay was last week because they haven't got his meds right yet and he's so weak and he was getting chest pains) he hasn't rang his son cos would mean ringing her and everytime he does she starts an argument and he doesn't get to speak to his son in the end, hubby has asked if she can put him on a bus to our house as hubby can't sit on the bus doctors orders, bearing in mind his son has told him that he's fine sitting on the bus cos he knows where he's going before all this has happened she's said he never said that and it's not happening....yet it's fine for him to sit on the bus with his mortal drunk mam get her off the bus and go to his house in the dark to get her boyfriend because she's passed out in the bus stand.....so now she's told my hubby he's not coming to see his dad and she's going to tell him that his dad doesn't care.....why does she have to cause so much stress, I'm sick of it, hubby literally hasn't done anything wrong he's trying to get himself better