questions for moms that have full custody of their children. my daughters father isn't around and when I try to get him to come over his friends come first. it's been 3 months now since he saw her. I want to go for full custody and child support Cuz I know he won't change. how did you feel when you made that choice? I feel like I'm being mean to him and my daughter but he's that type of guy that wants to be in and out of others life. I don't want my daughter to go through the pain I did with him.