Alright so I need parental advice. Please do not bash each other. So my will be 3 year isn't…
Alright so I need parental advice. Please do not bash each other. So my will be 3 year isn't listening, which I don't expect her to do all the time but she is talking back, she runs off and doesn't come when i call so she can't play freely like the other kids her age does. I tried getting down at her level and speaking stern but she snatches away sometimes or acts like she doesn't hear me, turns her head. I do believe in corporal punishment but I don't feel entirely comfortable with it on my child. I also do time outs but she makes her time outs(2-3 minutes) fun by singing and other natural child stuff. I have done spankings but it doesn't fix it she just either screams loudly or completely shuts down depending on the situation. I'm really at a lost here.
Stephanie H.·
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Take away things she really likes to play with with a stern face & tone. Don't give them back for a week and tell her why your taking them and what she has to do to get them back.
Joannie Lewis·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
@nolans1stlove, yes I really do need to get on top of that. She started peeing her pants on purpose when she is potty trained so I told her no tablet or cartoons for a week. Then next thing I know she started sneaking off with one of our phones to watch YouTube, I take them but it was once I was doing homework and was just happy she was quiet. I'm a young mom and starting to realizing it takes discipline on both sides
Zaria Powell·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)
You have to really show her who is boss. Experiment with different ways to do so. What I would do is when she does something bad pull her side and talk to her. When she start acting up during that time like walk away or turn her head you snap back in a mean tone and tell her to get over there to you and look at you when you speak. Be aggressive but not hurtful.
Nakeia White·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
Do a behavioral chart reward her when she's good get a huge jug of lollipop or make a snake drawer with healthy good stuff and if she's good for two days or earn stickers as you set she can get a snack and discipline when she bad. Take her toys if she don't want to pick them up and if she wants to talk back take snack away and tell her she will earn a sweet treat when she loses the potty mouth
Stephanie H.·
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@joan32393, yes you do! I'm going to be a first time mom in December so I'm going to through it also but my son will know his momma crazy and not gonna play with him. I didn't do it with my little cousins and I'm not going to do it with him. Be stern and strong. Take things away, talk to her, and let her cry it out. She will be alright and will thank you for it later in life. Right now she's just showing her small behind trying to dictate things. Show her who's boss. We are their parents first, not they friend! Until she gets much older
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
don't let her play during time out. that defeats the purpose. it's quiet time for her to think about what she did wrong. start taking things from her. I agree with whoever said a behavior chart. You have to show her that you are the boss and not her.
Makayla Ippolito·
Мама подростков
i just saw this on another post but you should take away her privileges to go trick or treating. that speaks volumes. another thing when you put her in time out make a no moving and no speaking rule. anytime she does either one of those things add five minutes to her time out. dont say anything to her besides you are adding it because she is breaking the rules. the best method is to have her stand in a corner with her arms behind her back and shes allowed to take her nose out of the corner. after a while of standing there she will get tired and hopefully listen.