OK so the babies dad's side of the family(constructed by his mom) wants to come out to Cali in December to meet me, and they eventually want me to meet his son...
I feel like I don't know them and I'm moving on so why get to know them.
His mom has an different motive though. And she's involving her family..She's just trying to get us back together (oh hell no)lol
I am NOT looking forward to it, all I wanna do is move on and take care of my unborn kids, and patiently wait for baby Jesus to send me a husband. lol
even though I agreed to meet them, I'm dreading it and I really don't want to .. I guess this is a rant.
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you don't ever have to do something you don't want to do unless you're ready.
I'm going to. I just don't want to.. LOL I totally understand where you're coming from, I just want the past in the past.
I think you should meet them so that they can be a part of your children's lives. I know you don't want to but the extra support might really help
@luckygir744, so you don't think im wrong for feeling this way? I don't wanna sound like a bitch but I really don't care to meet them
go off your intuition! if you feel like you really don't want it to happen then don't let it. please don't ever be afraid to just say no thank you...even if it is family.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My bf moved with me to be closer to my family when I got pregnant. He has made it clear he hates living so close to my parents and wants to move. Which is fine, I don't always want to live near my parents. But we also have an 11 month old and another baby due in july. I still go to highschool and told him I just want to finish out highschool without moving schools again. I've done it too many times in my life. And it's hard enough making new friends when your a teen mom. His response is I don't ...
So my boyfriend just said he don't want to be with because his mom doesn't like me !
So I'm no where near my due date but we were talking and do you guys think it's wrong that I don't want his mom in the room when I deliver? I only want him , my mom and my grandmother. Me and his mom aren't that close and I'm not really a fan of hers she does stuff that grind my gears but I keep it cordial because that's his mom. I just don't want her in there I don't feel like she needs to be In there am I wrong?
if you feel like you're not ready to meet them then don't. if there's a chance of it happening at a later date then go for that if you're comfortable... and if you're gonna do that should find out a little more history on them before inviting them into your home.