Is it messed up I asked my baby daddy if he could skip just one day from picking up his kid on our one year anniversary?…

She is just lazy!

@beanieboo, EXACTLY! LOL

RiGHT ! & his moms at her house with her man just chillin while I'm here busting my ass with her son haha but yet he's not able to sleep over my house because I'm here ? it makes no sense . I feed her child & am NOTHiNG but loving & caring to him! But hes not allowed to sleep at my house SMH @armyvet_mom_of_four

I just do what I want. whats hes gonna do call the police for one day he couldnt pick his kid up

Sounds like people got mad over nothing. It's just like when my husband and I, have someone watch the kids when we go out. It's not bad you want a day with him, maybe he can try to find a baby sitter. Anyways where the mom at? I mean sounds like he forever at your house, his mom can be a mom for a day.

I'll try again tonight after we take him home.. I just don't want to make him mad 😔 @maygi0221

talk to him hun. let him know 💪

but that just sounds so depressing .. the point is to be with him 😢😢 @maygi0221 I'm just so emotional right now

oh hun try talking to him , if he says no then you go out by ur self and enjoy your day and he could stay with he's kid in the house ..

yes that's my point its just for our anniversary that's it . I'm with the kid more than his own mother I think i DEFiNiTLEY deserve a break . i am pregnant with my first child & would like too have just one day . I go out of my way all the time for him & his son.

. I just thought I would be treated for one day ... @morganmommy79

It's a complicated situation. If it were me in his shoes I also wouldn't want to not pick up my child HOWEVER, I would most def make it a special day without the child. It's what couples do. You deserve it. You would get a sitter for your own child so it's no different for the other child. When my kids are with us on special days like that I get a sitter. Then they're home with me later. Best of both worlds. He should at least acknowledge it's a special day for the two of u.

Like i said I work full time he's there 7 days of the week . I think his own mom can take care of him for maybe a day ? I mean she doesn't work & her & her man live together . he only sleeps at her house ? so what's the big deal I work 10 hours for 5 days straight & open my store at 7 am . im in bed by 8 .. I don't think one day will do any damage @2hrtbts

imagine how the child will feel, his dad picks him/her up all the time and then out of nowhere he's not there. there's no way he can pick the child up and drop them off with mom and then you both can get the rest of the day?

I don't think it's a problem for his mom to take care of him for once but thanks @lizzyc09

ummm excuse me ? lol where in my status does it say i didnt know ? he picks him up everyday literally & he's here from 8 am to 8 pm ? so yeah I work full time job & he works part time they moved in with me .. so yeah I think I deserve A SPECiAL DAY ! it's not like I'm asking for a week @lizzyc09

that's what I tried telling him but he doesn't care . 😔 @lovingmatheo

No it isn't messed up you deserve a special day