so had baby last tuesday! went to my dr on monday and blood pressure was 150/108. also had protein in my urine which was new to my pregnancy. so they sent me to the hospital to be monitored and to do blood work. they sent me to l&d and into a delivery room. i was nervous. so i called hubby who was at home sleeping for work and told him and he came to the hosp. they monitored me for an hr an half did blood work and the dr comes in and says " you're 39.5 we are going to induce." i said okay. at first hubby was happy saying "we gonna have a baby jaiden soon." then by the time they started cytotec pill he was whiny " I should be at work you don't need me here tonight if baby not coming by 7am. expressed that he hated the pullout couch they offered him." then I was on cytotec every 4 hrs for dilation until 1030am tuesday morning. the dr checked me and said I was dilated enough to break my water. so he did i dilated from a 1-3cm just breaking my water. they then started pitocin which wasn't bad until I had a ripping pain in my side. so they gave me stadol which helped for an hr. i then asked for epidural and they ordered one and gave me stadol again to hold over til epidural was put in. i was screaming in pain i couldnt figure out why that one spot was hurting. hubby didnt know what to do. so he stood there holding my hand. they came in and gave me the epidural and the anesthesiologist put it more into the left than the right. ended up hurting more. and being half numb. so 2 hrs later she come back and fixed it. then it was time to push. they got me all set up and dr ready and i pushed for 20min and just excruciating pain even through epidural. so i begged the dr for a c section i couldnt do it. so he took me in for one and hubby refused to go. said he couldnt handle that so he stayed in waiting room with our 3 yr old and my mom went back with me. he was worried something was going to happen to me that he couldnt watch them cut me open.

so baby was born at 10:15pm 8lbs 1oz 21". i ended up having a blockage in my uterus keeping him from coming out natural. I also had a rip in my uterus from baby. my hubby now says when im complaining about pain etc that "you just let them cut you open you couldnt do it etc its your fault not mine"

i dont know why guys have to be so hateful. i just want to be a family