After arguing with my baby's dad all morning about his mom messaging my dad, I really don't think…

After arguing with my baby's dad all morning about his mom messaging my dad, I really don't think this time she did....I think it was my mom this time....I think she went through my phone and saw our messages and just stirred up some mess because she hates my ex. Idk what to believe because my mom and his mom is capable of some shit like that now I'm labeled the drama starter 😓