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Hey mamas I need advice!

Me and my boyfriend had a deep conversation this weekend because he ended up calling me emotionally abusive. We got into an argument where he took it out of line and told me he felt I was being abusive. I've been holding things in and venting my frustration but I have never been abusive and I apologized for venting out my frustration and promise I would talk more and stop yelling about things also letting him know I'm not abusive in any way since I have also told him I never wanted or tried to be abusive. We have been fighting more because of living with his family and they keep getting in our business. I have to kept my promise and I'm focusing on being a good gf and mother. I've stopped yelling since that's how my family was and his family was different. I choose to talk things out now especially when we argue. He chose to tell his cousin I was abusing him emotionally and never talked to me. Well his whole family now considers me abusive to him emotionally when I never have even asked him to help me or do anything for me we just began fighting more. I've never yelled when I was pregnant or when we were dating it just began with the stress of staying with his family and our lack of communication about our relationship keep in mind I'm not abusive. My dad did abused me when I was little physical and I've just always fought with my siblings through yelling. His family is terrible to me yet I have a daughter with him and now since they think I abuse him I really don't wanna be part of his family. My boyfriend broke my trust and has lied to me so I don't want to even believe him much anymore. If he talked to me first I would have been calm and I gave been. I loved him everyday and even forced my self to stay with his family because of our daughter his mom is cruel to me and loves gossiping behind my back. I'm not a bad person but I told him I would leave not threatening or mean but I wanted to leave apartment and take our daughter because his whole family has put me down and keeps acting fake towards me. He said he took the whole thing out of proportion and just realized I was never abusive. His cousins dislike me also since they are also constantly putting me down behind my back. I'm a wonderful mom and I do the best as his gf but I wanna cut out his family they our extremely toxic to me but to my daughter it's unfair but I can't be around people who love to put me down and break us apart. His mom has also overstepped my boundaries and thinks she is righteous in not apologizing to me I've apologized to her for telling her how I felt. To be honest I feel I have done nothing wrong and now I hate my bfs family strongly except his dad and baby sister who understand and his dad has accepted me and treats me well.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont…

Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??

I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to…

I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling Me he asked Me beforehand I said I didn't have to pee then. Then he goes on to tell Me to hurry up and turn My hotspot on so he can use it. I get up slowly because I'm in a bit of aching this evening then he yells at Me to hurry up..I make My way slowly down the hallway still getting yelled at. I don't know why he thinks I should do anything for him! This is so hard Y'all! I fight back tears every day *darn hormones*

Ugh (long) So yesterday I heard my sister and her Bf fighting. To the point I had to yell downstairs to stop it. (I…

Ugh (long) So yesterday I heard my sister and her Bf fighting. To the point I had to yell downstairs to stop it. (I heard my sister yell something, Something banging on the wall, then her Bf yelling) so I yelled 'what is going on in my house?!' The Bf yelled back my sister tripped him and he hit his head and wouldn't let him leave. I yelled to let him go. So she did. Two hours later he came back(to get some of his stuff) and came upstairs to tell me he was moving out. Ok fine. Idc (personally I don't know how she can be with him. He's a pos of a person) I tell him they need to figure out the living situation down there like adults. I guess his mom was here too. They both walked out the side door (my SO right there cleaning out the garage) my SO asked if he was really moving out and he responded that yes he was moving out.

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just…

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.