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I'm just so frustrated sometimes at all the unsolicited advice. Like, my neighbor (who never really talked to her kids,…

I'm just so frustrated sometimes at all the unsolicited advice. Like, my neighbor (who never really talked to her kids, so they have speech issues) is pressuring me about putting CeCe into daycare early. I'm a stay-at-home mom and exclusively breastfeeding at this point (she's started refusing bottles for the most part and I'm too lazy to pump), and I don't plan on putting her in daycare until she's at least a year old, if not school age. She mommy shames me about other stuff too... but that's the biggest one. It makes me want to cry. I've done my research on a lot of things and everyone keeps telling me I'm wrong or I should do this or that or whatever... and on top of all this, my dad lied to me to get out of helping pay for my wedding like he did for my sisters, and my sister flat out told me she hated that I dyed my hair blonde (it looks good af and I love it, it really helps my self-confidence).

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kelseyp16

KelseyМама дочки (1 год)

You are Mom. You are NOT in the wrong! My daughter will never set foot in daycare or pre-school. She will be homeschooled. I wish I could stay home with my daughter full time, babies and children need their mothers!

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chelsea3x

ChelseaМама двоих (младенец)

If you stay home, why would your child to to daycare? that makes no sense to me lol

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jessgnov

JessicaВ ожидании первенца

no 2 babies are the same and what may work for her and her kids doesn't necessarily work for you and your baby..so do what's in your gut and try to not pay her to much mind I get a lot of advice and my baby isn't even out here yet but I'll do what I feel is right and trust my gut and you should too!Mama I trust you and so does your little one do what's right in your heart remember no one is the same and everyone is different!

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babygirl10-11

💚Mizz Rita💚Мама троих детей

ive never put any of my kids in daycare and dont plan on it ill work nights till my last one is old enough for school ...

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amaperalta03

AmandaМама двоих (младенец)

My toddler is turning2 in a month nd I'm just looking into daycare for her your not a bad mom. Don't listen to anyone

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