Do what u feel is best for u. if u don't want everyone there keep it to ur self till later. After 4 kids I'm now to the point idc who's feelings I've hurt. This is my absolute last baby and no one will b able to c him till after my kids gets to meet there brother. Most r understanding bout it but a few r mad. idc though honestly

I didn't tell anybody with my last 2.. my first everyone and their momma was in my room. in my space. and could not control their children.

good, I hav always tried to please family but this is kindof big for me and it's the one thing I wanted to go a certain way

No I didn't tell anyone until she was born

nope! the only person we told was my fiance's mom because she needed to come from 3 hours away to watch my son