First thing I told my family was that I didn't want them to post anything until I posted a pic of my daughter (if I even decided to). Took me about a week to finally announce it on Facebook and I'm glad I waited. I just texted my close friends a pic of my daughter when we had her. Everyone understood my decision, but my family was getting so anxious. They were so excited to finally have her out 💜

I didn't have anyone visit in the hospital. They met my baby when we got home.

Then don't even announce anything don't tel anyone. Tell the ones you want to come how you feel and make them not say a word until you get home. I don't want many people especially the first 48 hours. I said after that if I'm still there people can come if they aren't family. We will seee though. People know I'm being induced. But my hospital is so secure they call me on who ever shows up. I will say no if I feel to crowded. I really want it just me and my Husband for the first day but my family is crazy it won't happen!

@babyrossmommy, at least you were letting people come. I don't even want that lol I just want it to be me and my dad and the few people that are gonna be there when I'm in labor but all of my friends and family friends think they need to be there and it's stressing me out 😂😂

I wrote something on facebook. Some were not happy. I said only family the first day. And people I barely even see were trying to say they were family. So then I just put it to grandparents only unless I say otherwise lol.

Maybe something like this? And further explain all your requests