One thing I can't stand is someone parenting my child when I'm literally standing right next to him. I bring my son over to my mom's for her to watch him when I go to work and my younger sister, 20(who has no kids and the mentality of a 16 year old) constantly tries to parent my son I usually let it slide but today my son was playing with the dog crate and was shutting the door and she snapped at my son saying "hey! what are you doing!" in the meanest tone ever, he stopped in his tracks dropped his head and looked so shamed and he honestly wasn't doing anything wrong. I just about lost it, instead I grabbed my son and said "it's ok you were just having fun" I'm at my wits end with her "parenting" my son who isn't truly doing anything wrong because if he was obviously id stop it.