the day I find out my 17 yr old is sexually active, she's at her game right now and don't know that…

I'm sorry momma ): that's got to be the worst thing to find out. I remember how hard my mother in law seemed to take it when she found out that her son and I had sex when he was 17. We both had to sit down and talk to her and she just cried. Good news is that we ended up graduating, getting married, and getting pregnant after marriage. She was really worried about teen pregnancy and I'm sure it was a relief to see us both graduate and get married first.

@christimary0, that's a great outcome so very happy for you and Congrats! it actually happened 7 months ago and I'm just finding out today... it's so many questions I want to ask but don't wanna come to strong... I'm more so hurt then pissed

Ugh

all you can do at this point is have a talk with her on being safe and how it's important for her to respect her body, being mindful of guys that just wanna sex you, STDs babies and so on. I never had " the talk" with my mom or dad. and at 14 I didn't know shit about nothing for real so by 15 I was pregnant. I fear the moment your going through right now big time, but we can't hold them as little babies for life... sadly they grow and make their own decisions. but from a little experience... talking and explaining and showing that you care should go a long way. good luck momma....

@for_the_love_of_them123456, thank you so much, I talked to her lastnight... and I seriously wasn't prepared .. I'm hurting but I know I'll get through this with God