My boyfriend left me. He told me I'm evil, devilish, deceiving, a liar, a cheat, and he hopes that…
My boyfriend left me. He told me I'm evil, devilish, deceiving, a liar, a cheat, and he hopes that the baby kills me during labor. He said that he wants me dead because I'm untrustworthy and because I hurt him. All because I refused to get an abortion. I loved him so much. I never did anything to hurt him. He didn't even want me to do adoption. I want my baby. And he makes me feel so bad. I'm stressing but I'm trying not to because last time I had a miscarriage from stress. I'm so heartbroken and upset that he would wish and "pray" for my death. I seriously thought he loved me. This is a wonderful gift that was given to us. And yes it may be a bit too soon in our relationship for a child. But I don't see how any of his words or actions were called for. I know he's upset right now. But should I wait for him to come around or break it off. I know he's no good for me but he's my love and the father of my daughter. Every daughter wants to be a daddy's girl. And no first time mom wants to go through this journey alone. I need reassurance because and support because I can't lose another baby. It would hurt too much. I want him back. If I should wait for him how can I get him to see the better side of things.
Jessie·
Мама троих детей
Stay away from him. He's toxic
Zaria Powell·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)
thank you so much. I am turning 19 next month and he turns 23 in January. He said he really did care for me but I'm being selfish by only thinking of myself. I told him that he didn't have to worry about a thing when it came to caring for the baby. Because I know he's trying to get on his feet and get his life together. It's very stressful for him and that why I hope he said all this out of anger. I really don't want to believe that he thinks me and our child are nothing to him. I guess I should try to move on from him. But it's hard when he was the only person there for me. That's why itd be so hard for me to let him go
Jess·
Don't go back! Those are some pretty shitty things he said to you and not right of him on any level! You'll look back to find that getting out now will save you a lot of trouble! I finally got the strength to up and leave my baby's father at almost 38 weeks! Best thing I ever did for myself and baby. I'm so happy now and I don't need his asshole self, that's for damn sure. Being a single mom isn't all that bad, and it's better than being with a douchebag who doesn't give a shit about you or baby.
Zaria Powell·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Thank you. I will try to get over him. Do you think that therapy would be necessary. Just so that I can get past this and make sure my stress doesn't harm the baby. Or will it happen naturally. I'm more concerned for my baby than for myself. I don't want to lose her
chelle berjus·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Dont go back.... Also put him on child support as soon as you have the baby... If he wants to be such an A$$ .......