Ok so my stepson is 17 all he do is play video games he does not help around the house at all...every time I tell my husband that his son needs to help out he make excuse such as he not gonna do it or he's gonna take long to do it...or if I need him to help around the house 🏡 not to clean at all please someone answer this...I can't deal with it anymore...plus I have a 8 month and a 2 year old to look after
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She told me not to tell her son what to do and we always fighting 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I don't understand why she don't take her son like I'm really tired me ithlovedkj
Awe. I'm hoping things get better. Don't clean behind him. Do what you can do and leave it at that. I can imagine how you must be feeling. How's your relationship with your stepsons mother? Does she tolerate it? @mariah_grandberry
Yes and he said he's not going @withlovedkj I really don't wanna loose a marriage over his kid but I'm getting really tired I can't keep cleaning behind him I told my husband he needs to go to his mother and of course ignored what I said I have a 2 year old and a 8 month old and they give me no problems
Ok, if he can't come around and compromise,sounds like you may want to get through to him another way. His son needs to learn how to clean to benefit himself, not you. He's enabling him. His son may not find a woman who will clean his house for him. Has he thought about that? It's called learning life skills! Have you ever considered counseling?
@withlovedkj, he ripped it up and said his son job is not clean up around here that's my job I'm the women of the house🙄🙄🙄🙄
I have 3 step kids ages 9,12 &13; years old
*Talk it over with your husband and get his input
Have you tried making him a weekly/ daily chore list that he has to complete? Take it over with your husband and after you make it and see get his input. @mariah_grandberry
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
My dad doesn't think I can do this #need help.
ladies, I need yalls help. the father of my unborn child has not been apart of this pregnancy at all. I'm do in almost 8weeks, he don't wanna help out with my baby's needs like mainly the carseat he hasn't gotten any clothes pampers or anything a new born will need,I'm so stressed out don't know what to do... I can't do this on my own, he's not wanting to pay for anything... ladies please I need advice on what to do?? 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
@withlovedkj,