Ok so my stepson is 17 all he do is play video games he does not help around the house at all...every time I tell my husband that his son needs to help out he make excuse such as he not gonna do it or he's gonna take long to do it...or if I need him to help around the house 🏡 not to clean at all please someone answer this...I can't deal with it anymore...plus I have a 8 month and a 2 year old to look after
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She told me not to tell her son what to do and we always fighting 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I don't understand why she don't take her son like I'm really tired me ithlovedkj
Awe. I'm hoping things get better. Don't clean behind him. Do what you can do and leave it at that. I can imagine how you must be feeling. How's your relationship with your stepsons mother? Does she tolerate it? @mariah_grandberry
Yes and he said he's not going @withlovedkj I really don't wanna loose a marriage over his kid but I'm getting really tired I can't keep cleaning behind him I told my husband he needs to go to his mother and of course ignored what I said I have a 2 year old and a 8 month old and they give me no problems
@mariah_grandberry,
Ok, if he can't come around and compromise,sounds like you may want to get through to him another way. His son needs to learn how to clean to benefit himself, not you. He's enabling him. His son may not find a woman who will clean his house for him. Has he thought about that? It's called learning life skills! Have you ever considered counseling?
@withlovedkj, he ripped it up and said his son job is not clean up around here that's my job I'm the women of the house🙄🙄🙄🙄
I have 3 step kids ages 9,12 &13; years old
*Talk it over with your husband and get his input
Have you tried making him a weekly/ daily chore list that he has to complete? Take it over with your husband and after you make it and see get his input. @mariah_grandberry
@withlovedkj,