So stressed and tired 😞 my fiancé and I talked about me being a stay at home mom and today he was…

The exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. They don't get how much we do during the day. Like yea I'm just sitting around with a one year old and he lets me watch tv all day...don't think so 😒

Going through the same thing. Discussed it with my SO before hand. Now that he works all the time and I'm at home he doesn't act so appreciative. He really thinks I just sit on my ass all day. Not the case. Between taking care of the baby, I'm also doing laundry, dishes, and all kinds of other house chores. Then comes dinner and prepping his lunches while still taking care of the baby after he gets home. They don't understand.

I'm only 4months and I still work my two jobs my boyfriend gets mad at me everyday for it but it's my choice and I know when I can no longer take it. @aboutellesbabe if you two talked about you being a stay at home mom he needs to show a little more compassion

I feel you girl. I've been dealing with the same shit since I had my son 3 years ago. I feel like he always has something hanging over my head because I don't make the money. I love being with my son, sometimes it's emotionally draining but I love being with him, but it's hard to truly appreciate it because I don't feel appreciated at all. It would probably be easier in certain ways to go back to work if I didn't have medical issues but I wouldn't want my son with strangers. I just men could appreciate what we do and realize we our keeping our babies safe and making our home clean and taking care of. It's important.

I'm going through the same thing right now. but once you stop cooking and cleaning and doing laundry and so on is when they'll start their nagging. like if it wasn't for us things at home wouldn't get done

it's easy fit then to go there tho they could not do what we do as sahm