Rant!!

I seriously hope my step father doesn't try shoving his views, beliefs, & opinions own my daughters throat.

I can't breastfeed around him without him acting like a child about it. Seriously. I get comments like, "you know, I put a rocking chair in the bedroom so you could do that there." Obviously I ignore it and stay where I'm at, so he makes HUGE deal about walking by us with his hand blocking us from view and his head turned away obnoxiously 🙄 or telling me I'm being "indecent"
(Not knocking formula!!❤️❤️)

I can't come over without him IMMEDIATELY talking about politics or asking if Madi is wearing the color for his political party. There's an elephant on her diaper bag and he always brings up politics just bc he sees it.
(Not trying to start political debate, just ranting)

I can't talk about stuff my daughter and I do without him arguing that I'm not doing anything right. I'm "melting her brain" and "setting her up for failure" bc I let her watch baby educational shows and listen/watch Disney songs. 🙄

If my daughter isn't wearing her hat every single second that she's at his house then she's "too cold" and I'm "not being responsible" (we're inside! She's fine!)

I've had to use my daughter as the "rope" in "tug of war" with him bc he wouldn't stop freaking her out (unintentionally, but wouldn't quiet down when I asked multiple times) by kinda being loud and in her face but he was only trying to play. Still, he didn't listen when I asked him to either stop, quiet down, or give her back. What the heck?!😡😡😡

He's saying that she shouldn't learn a second(+) language bc "this is America and we speak English!" 🙄😑😡 I would love it if my daughter learned another, if not more than one, language! It'd help her out! Open her world up even more! 😍😍he's more concerned about her knowing advanced math and science.

Her onesie was wet from drool so I changed her and I was being ridiculous bc I "put a million outfits on her each day" even though she usually spends the day in pjs at home. Today is my grandma's birthday, her great grandma, so yeah I changed her into her party dress!😍😂

There's more but I know I'm boring you probably.

I guess I'm just wondering, am I overreacting? It's like this and worse every time I come here!! I almost don't want to come back bc of all this and more that goes on. Some good vibes and positive words would help too:/

PS. He has 0 children of his own and him and my mom didn't get together until I was in 6th grade. So I'd love to know why he thinks he knows what's best for her.