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Jolynn Smith
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Jolynn Smith·Мама дочки (8 лет)
Had to go to court the other day with my POS ex for violating the restraining order. Turned out in my favor. But the lawyers informed me that, even with the history of abuse (when he knew I was pregnant), he could still get visitation rights. Supervised, possibly. But I can't agree with this at all. How is that fair? I don't want child support, I'm not putting his name on the birth certificate...he doesn't even pay the child support he owes to his other children and never sees them. He's gonna fight for visitation just to get under my skin, I know it. But it's not right. He doesn't care about her he just wants to get to me. Even tho the courts KNOW he abused me, knowing I was pregnant, left marks on me that are still there from over 2 months ago. It's not fair and I just want to protect my baby girl and myself. 😭 My restraining order expires Feb 7, a week before my due date and I'm afraid of what he's going to do. 😣 Just needed to get that off my chest and mind. I pray everything works out for the best and he stays out of our life. I want my baby girl to be safe. She's already my world.
15.10.2016
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michelle2220
Michelle·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
well the court system can be messed up bc my biological father molested me when I was really young and only got 3 months in jail and was still allowed visitation supervised at first and then unsupervised. he finally was cut off when he tried to kidnap me at 9. but I can tell you right now that if he doesn't pay child support for his other kids he ain't gonna try much with this one bc if you don't put him on the birth certificate then he has to file for paternity test and he has to pay for it
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rmreed
Rachel·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)
I would strongly advise looking into an attorney, I'm pretty sure you can get one pro bono...just don't know how! My ex is the same exact way, all the other kids and abusive..blah blah but he says he wants nothing to do with this baby. I'm hoping he stays FAR away. I get it though and I'm here if you ever want to talk!
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jolynnsmith
Jolynn Smith·Мама дочки (8 лет)
@emily18234, thank you very much. ♡ hope everything worked out in your favor in your situation.
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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков
Prayers mama. I went through something similar. I'm here if you ever need to vent.
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