that's just because your 3 yr old was used to it being just them... let him help with with baby, like hand you the diaper or wipes. help feed the baby if you are bottle feeding. but also make alone time for your 3 year old. send an hour or two just the 2 of you. @mommybump3 if you have the baby blues ask for help. don't be ashamed more woman than not suffer in silence and it only makes it worse. talk family and friends, or even your doctor.

I'm praying things will get better and thank you @mommab4

Thank you, I'm trying so hard to keep it together, it's just that my 3 year old needs and wants all the attention and I feel bad @mommab4 .. and this baby blues thing I get at times really su---..

transitioning from 1 child to 2 is very difficult.. you will get into a routine that will work for all 3 of you.

when I had my second it was 5 years after my first. getting back to all nighters, diapers, chaos, and crying was super difficult.

you got it momma